Education plays a key role in the formation and development of human personality, including family education, school education, social education. In which, 1) The family is a home - a place filled with genuine love, is both a place to meet personal needs, perform the function of genetic development and is the first school to form and develop humanity. childish / human way. 2) School education (including collective activities and public social activities) provides people / students with basic and modern scientific knowledge, forming intellectual competencies and qualities. wisdom and develop the moral qualities of personality. 3) Social education through books, movies, television, social communication, with healthy contents, actively contributing to support family and school education in the formation and development of personality. human.Particularly interested in family issues, President Ho Chi Minh affirmed: “Many families combine to become a society, the better society is, the better the family, the better the family, the better society. The nucleus of society is the family ”[2], because the family is the home of each person, it is the cell of society; at the same time, it is also a place to preserve and promote traditional cultural values ​​and important environment to form, nurture and educate human personality. Traditional Vietnamese families are formed and developed, and are firmly linked by the love and responsibility among the members; with good value standards such as: Heavenly honor, harmony, loyalty, gratitude, sacrifice for children, respect and filial piety, to grandparents, parents, brothers and sisters, loving each other. , studious, diligent, creative in labor, etc. to become the cradle, the foundation for forming and nurturing Vietnamese human personality.With the meaning of being the first cultural environment, where every individual from birth to development and maturity is continuously receiving good feelings from members, family culture is the core value. of social culture, because that is the source of human birth, human nurturing from birth to adulthood. Family culture is a system of specific values ​​and standards that regulate the relationship between family members and the relationship between family and society, associated with specific conditions of nature. economy, culture, society. Among the elements of family culture, the organization of life is orderly, orderly and ordained; Teaching, behavior, and communication between parents and children, among family members of generations are very important, because through it, the previous generations impart cultural values ​​to children. tradition and modernity, creating social and personality valuesthe culture of each person. Personality, morality and lifestyle of family members have a lot to do with children; meanwhile, the education in the family does not have a specific program or plan and the members are not properly trained in education, so, non-standard family education will lead children to think. and standard deviation behavior. The foundation of a happy family is manifested in the relationship of good conduct, understanding, sharing, understanding and love between husband and wife; The love, care, and sacrifice of parents for their children and the respect, gratitude, filial piety of the children towards their parents, grandparents ... Therefore, the family culture and education in a cultural family create a order and discipline for everyone to do together and that is also the ceremony, the family style - the root of the family, keeping the people of Vietnam and giving the family and society of Vietnam a strong vitality. paralysis.The family factor is initially responsible for the child's / individual socialization, significantly affecting the formation of the child's original quality and personality. Education and nurturing are two key factors that determine the talent and personality of each person, but human personality from the time of being in the womb to maturity has not stopped. ... In that journey, childhood being cared for and nurtured at home is an important stage, although at that time, the personality is not clearly shown, but through the behavior of imitating the actions of the person. As big, young children begin to acquire the causal interactions to form their own personality. In order for the children to become a person with good personality, each family's education plays a leading rolereligion. Accordingly, the education of children does not stop at only good words, but also by gestures and beauties, because all behaviors, attitudes and lifestyles of adults, especially parents, have a direct impact on the formation and development of children's personality. The ancients often say "teaching children from an early age", so, regularly educating children in attitudes, gestures, polite words, respect and respect, respect for religion ... Understanding and gratitude to the one who was born, nurtured and cared for grandparents and parents is very necessary.