1. Husband and wife love each other

In a family, husband and wife are like earth and flowers. If the husband and wife relationship is not harmonious, it will directly affect all relationships in the house. If husband and wife disagree, the relationship between mother-in-law - daughter-in-law, parent - child will all deteriorate.

If there is no real love between husband and wife, the whole family will lack love. Husband and wife love each other is the strongest resistance of a family, is the most basic and best education for children. The greatest love a father has for his children is their mother. The greatest love that a mother has for her children is the admiration and appreciation of their father.

Half of the child comes from the father, the other half comes from the mother, if one of them is denied, it means that half of the child has been unintentionally denied. In addition, children are created by the cells of the parents combined, so every child subconsciously hopes that their parents will get along and love each other.

2. Feel free to chat

Communication is key to maintaining family happiness. If there's something you shouldn't keep in your heart, talk to your loved ones more, so that people can understand you better, so you can avoid a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.

Parents and children really need to talk and exchange with each other in life, families without communication and conversation will hardly be happy. Love needs communication through language, otherwise how can we feel the love between husband and wife, parent-child? A marriage without husband and wife feeling love, how can they live together for a lifetime?

So every day, at mealtime, resting or before going to bed, put down your phone and computer to chat together.

3. Trust each other

The two birds live together, the male bird collects seeds and fills a nest for the female. Due to the hot weather, the seeds are dehydrated, so they become smaller, the number of seeds in the nest seems to be only half of the original. The male bird thinks that the female is clumsy, so he chases the female away. A few days later, it rained heavily, the air was humid, and the seeds bloomed to fill a nest. At this time, the male bird was very regretful and said, "It was I who blamed the female bird!"

Between family members who need to trust each other, many families are peaceful but broken due to cynicism. Therefore, keep trust with your loved ones, avoid unreasonable doubts, don't let doubt destroy family happiness.

Family is a place where you don't need to take precautions, you can relax comfortably, chat happily, treat each other with sincerity, and feel trusted among family members at any time.

Faith is also a prerequisite for educating children. If parents and children lack trust in each other, children do not receive their parents' education, it will be difficult for them to develop comprehensively in the future.

4. Put yourself in someone else's shoes

Putting oneself in another's shoes is a fundamental moral quality. From time immemorial, even though people are not from the same region, ethnicity, religion, and culture, they all say things with the same meaning such as "Don't do to others what you don't want", "Want others." How other people treat you, you should treat them like."

In the family, husband and wife play different roles, which determines the difference in their approach to problems. Therefore, putting oneself in the position of others to think is very necessary and also the best way for husband and wife to understand each other and maintain a harmonious family.

Putting yourself in the shoes of others is also the best way to manage family relationships, mastering this way can effectively solve everything, solve problems in the family. , making the family harmonious so that all members can live happily.

5. Have an independent space

Husband and wife need care, care and sacrifice – this is very important – but if one person restricts the other too much, caring too much will make them feel no freedom. Changing yourself to satisfy the other's wishes, losing independence to preserve feelings, this will often backfire.

In fact, having an independent space will help stable emotional relationships. There are parents who often forget this, too much care and love for their children, making them feel "suffocated".

There is a boy in 10th grade who said that he really couldn't stand his mother's love anymore, she cares too much, what do you wear every day, what time do you get up, what time do you go to bed, even play with friends? everyone, mom also arranged. Mom always has to know the situation of the child, when a classmate calls in, she has to listen first, every day is required to say her thoughts to her mother, etc.. Making the boy feel like he is under house arrest at home. family, has no privacy of its own.

Everyone needs their own space. Love but still have privacy is happy love. If you can't give the person you love freedom, then you're not really in love at all

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