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                           Traditional wedding in Vietnam

⇒    Through more than four years of civilization, with the thickness and development of Vietnamese history, we have formed and kept many good traditions. That is the highlight, creating a characteristic of a culture with a strong national identity. One of the traditional systems of the Vietnamese people that has been preserved for many generations is the wedding custom. Although today the wedding is also simplified to reduce costs, but the change in the ceremony, but above all, still retains the core traditional beauty, showing flexibility in the relationship. . officially husband and wife.

It can be said that, after more than a thousand years, the Vietnamese people's wedding ceremony is also partly influenced by Chinese culture. That is an too a filter, learning question and importing valuable valuable documents from your country. At the same time, by flexible and creative activities, Vietnamese people create for themselves a systematic feature. The old wedding ceremony consists of 6 main ceremonies: Loading attitude is the fact that the groom's family brings a couple to the girl's house to make their intentions towards the girl of this family, followed by the name-calling ceremony, the groom's family will invite the matchmaker. The girl's family asks for the girl's name, date and time of birth to ask if the viewer is the right age for the boy. After comparing the couple's eight letters, if the co-operator sees that the sand-loading ceremony will be performed, inform the bride's family about the matching process so that the marriage can be done. Equally important is the wedding ceremony, also known as a sign, just for the groom's family to bring things to the bride's house, in order to firmly orient the marriage, evidence from the marriage with the girl of this house. Next, the groom's family will continue to hold the flag ceremony, ie the ceremony to select a good day for investors. Finally, the most important thing is the ceremony, the groom's family conducts the body ceremony, the bride returns to her husband's house to perform the ancestors ceremony, completing the wedding ceremony on the predetermined auspicious day.

These rituals are the work to be done in a traditional Vietnamese wedding ceremony, but nowadays to reduce the hassle and cost for both families, as well as the pressure for the newlyweds, The wedding ceremony has been reduced and simplified much. Attitude, problem, sandblasting, and diary loading ceremonies are often omitted, only conducted internally between two families in a few meetings and do not hold large ceremonies, and these ceremonies are named change to suit Vietnamese customs. In order to conduct a marriage that is favorable for both sides of the family, the first person we will perform the Dam Lane ceremony, the groom's family will bring betel nut, betel nut, and alcohol to the girl's house to talk and ask for the girl to be his wife. for his son. After that, if possible, the groom's family organizes the Betrothal ceremony (also known as the Name or Engagement ceremony) to inform everyone about the happy things, as well as the girl's place to live and designate an auspicious date. good so graceful about husband's house.

Usually the engagement ceremony will be held in an intimate manner between two families, an exchange of two families, to discuss and prepare for the upcoming wedding. Special is a ceremony and party held at the bride's house. The bride's wedding dress is usually a sophisticatedly designed ao dai with lace, silk and white or red tones, symbolizing the atmosphere of joy, happiness and luck, the groom wears an elegant vest, solemn, showing maturity, ready to protect his future wife.

During the wedding party, the groom's family is responsible for preparing for the delivery to the bride's house, including betel nut, delicious wine, tea, cake, bride's cake or rice cake, fresh fruit, confectionery and lotus jam, etc. .. is ordered in layers of embroidered red dragon and phoenix fabric. At auspicious time, the groom's family organizes to go to the bride's house, the bride's family will send someone to welcome and give the ceremony, after receiving the consent of the bride's family, the groom will welcome the bride out to greet both sides of the family. At that time, both of them worshiped the bride's family's ancestors, and exchanged wedding rings, showing the two bonds and officially becoming the same house, the newlyweds. Next, the two of them will sit down and discuss the day of the wedding ceremony, the strawberry program, as well as the necessary procedures, during which the bride and groom will go to invite the two families to ask questions. , take souvenir photos and end by paying the ceremony to the groom's family.

After the engagement ceremony, which is the wedding ceremony, on the wedding day the bride will wake up early, make up carefully, default to the most beautiful wedding dress, waiting for the groom to pick up. On this day, the costumes of the bride and groom are similar to the wedding day, if there is a difference, then surely, the bride will hold a bouquet of flowers in her hand and the wedding here will be more splendid than the wedding day. . Brides can choose between a European-style wedding with a leftover ao dai or remaining loyal to an elegant, luxurious suit, the popular colors are black, gray or white. Before the time to welcome the bride, the groom's family will send a representative to bring wine and areca wharf to ask for the bride, informing the bride's family in advance about the arrangement of the bride group to prepare for the reception.

In the wedding reception, the groom's family will go in a two-row group, led by the bride and groom

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