Parents vary greatly in their degree of strictness or indulgence towards their children. Some may be especially strict in money matters; others are severe over times of coming home at night, punctuality for meals or personal (1.CLEAN) ___________. In general, the controls imposed represent the needs of the parents and the values of the community as much as the child's own happiness and well-being. With regard to the development of moral standards in the growing child, (2.CONSISTENT) ___________ is very important in parental teaching. To forbid a thing one day and excuse it the next is no foundation for (3.MORAL) ____________. Also, parents should realize that “example is better than precept”. If they are hypocritical and do not practise what they preach, their children may grow confused and (4. EMOTION) ___________ insecure when they grow old enough to think for themselves, and realize they have been, to some extent, deceived. A sudden awareness of a marked difference between their parents' ethics and their morals can be a dangerous (5. DISILLUSION) ____________.